Probably most regular readers have stopped coming by now but I’m still getting 300+ hits a day on old posts, so hopefully someone out there is still reading this…
Michelle and I have been same as always – working on our relationship, and experimenting with D/s dynamics, especially in bed, but otherwise, keeping things pretty “normal”. I do my thing, and she does hers. It works pretty well, mostly.
The big change is that I have decided to start wearing a device. I currently have on a chrome-plated padlocked ring, attached to a cock cage.
This change was brought about by me. I ordered the device and tested it yesterday, and we put it on together, last night.
I have previously written that I would not go for a device unless she wanted it, and she had always said that it wasn’t really her thing, so I never did it.
Then just lately I decided that I wanted to do it for my own purposes, and asked her if she would do me a favor and be my key-holder. She said yes, she would be prepared to do that.
I have decided I want a device because we both like it when I am chaste, but if I am not locked up, the temptation to masturbate (not to orgasm) becomes too great and I end up doing it too often.
Also, I just like the idea. I think Michelle also likes it now she has thought about it, but doesn’t want it to be a burden or an obligation. So at the moment it’s my thing.
We had awesome sex last night with me locked up, and she said she had a great time. But then later in the evening, I realized that it was actually possible to get the device off. I had ordered the largest sized ring because I was worried about constricting things too much, and that was a mistake; I found that I could slip my balls back through the ring pretty easily, and then the whole thing just came right off.
I got up in the morning and asked Michelle if I could have a key so I could unlock it to get it back on.
“Yes. But you have to give it straight back to me.”
So I unlocked it and gave her back the key straight away, and she hid it.
Then I wrapped gardening twine around the base of the ring, to form a pad about half an inch high that effectively narrows the area that my balls could fit through.
Then I put it back on, and locked it up.
I have just experimented to see if I can get it off with the twine there, and the answer is: yes, I could still get it off, but it would be very hard work, and probably quite painful.
So I think I am effectively locked up now.
Obviously the twine is only a temporary solution, as it will be a bit gross when it gets wet. I may use wire or fishing line, and eventually, get a smaller ring.
Newbie observations so far:
– Walking around with several hundred dollars worth of chrome plated steel on my todger is weird, but also strangely comfortable
– If anyone kicks me in the nuts, I’m pretty much dead
– In order to stop my balls getting squashed between the ring and the cage, I sometimes have to walk and move tentatively, as though I was nursing a minor injury. I’m going to have to get used to it and toughen up, otherwise it will attract attention.
– The bulge is more noticeable than I would like when I wear tight jeans. Michele loves me in tight jeans. Catch 22 right there.
– I’m going to have to take it off for my karate lessons. Gym could be interesting, too.
– I don’t clink nearly as much as I expected.
– I knew I would have to pee sitting down but didn’t realize the end of the cage would bump against the toilet bowl
– Getting an erection in a cage is hot
– What am I going to do when my nephew sits on my knee?
Back with more in a bit. BTW, I have no regular commitment to this any more. It’s just a place to ramble and put up art I like…