Fantasy Domme: Jaime Murray

Jaime Murray caught my eye on the British TV show Hustle back in about 2005. She played the only woman in a group of long-con artists and her main role was being sexual bait for vain businessmen.

There is something about her face that is not traditionally beautiful but I find sexy as hell. Her smile and eyes indicates calmness and a certain sexual cunning. She knows she’s got it. She doesn’t have to do much with it. It suited her character in that show perfectly. I can imagine being so distracted by that stare I’d let my judgement slip…

She’s been in all sorts of other TV series besides Hustle, most of which I haven’t seen. But I found this video online and I think I just might check out Spartacus

Stephanie Rice – Hot or Not?

Could Australian swimmer Stephanie Rice be considered to be a hottie in normal circumstances? This picture from “blokey” men’s mag FHM screams NO! She’s a troll.

But this picture of her in a swimsuit looking tough for a Gatorade shoot? Hmmm. I don’t mind that at all.

Really, it is the same woman.

In my mind, a ‘Cougar’ looks like Amanda Redman

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Michelle and I are both close to 40, and ‘maturity’ beckons. The more I look around, the more I realise that’s nothing to be afraid of, sexually speaking. In a lot of ways, Michelle is actually hotter now than she was at 20, or even 30; not in every aspect, but in the most important one. I’m talking about the way she’s settled in to her face and body, she’s more relaxed and comfortable with herself, I guess it makes me more comfortable in being with her.

One of the main things that attracts me about women is a sense of power and confidence; a definite sense that they know what they want, and they would be quite happy to tell their partner all about it, and make sure they get it. I guess it comes with age. I see plenty of perfect-looking teens or twenty-somethings that do nothing for me sexually, they just look too anxious and insecure. And I see quite a few older women that I think have got it in a way that many younger women do not.

British TV actress Amanda Redman is 53 this year. She has got it, and has had it for years. And I’ve got no reason to think that Michelle won’t have it in exactly the same way in another 13 years time.

Amanda when younger. Doesn’t got it. (I guess the hairstyle doesn’t help.)

Amanda in her late 30s  (?).  She’s got it now.

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At 45. Still got it:

A more recent shot from a few years ago. From her role in the BBCs New Tricks. Definitely still got it:


Fantasy Domme: Ms Stiles When Young

Back around the year 2000, Ms Julia Stiles was so hot I nearly caught on fire whenever I saw her.

It might have been the fiesty character she played in that one good movie she was in, Ten Things. I regret her ultimate taming in that film.

Or maybe it was just that she hadn’t fully made it in Hollywood yet and still looked kinda hungry and a little angry, not just younger, but thinner in the face, meaner, and nothing like some of the smug pampered starlets that were around at the time.

I mentioned a while back that physically, I tend to like either slender blonde girls or well-built dark ones. Ms Stiles is almost an archetype of the first variety, with a willfulness about her that I was only just starting realise that I was attracted to…mag012

She lost it for a while, became a normal girl, with the bobby hair, the forced smile, and the whole look of her was like she belonged to Hollywood, like they owned her.

Recently she’s regained some of her charm, turning away from Hollywood to do stage acting and art-house flicks; but I’ll always remember her best when she was this strange new girl on the scene, willowy, capricious  and not belonging  to anyone or anything at all  just yet. I liked her fine that way.  mag034It was…those amazing dark eyes!

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Fantasy Domme: Sonja Sohn

sonja-sohnlgI am not normally a pinkerton, and I have never before clicked the ‘ebony’ link when surfing, so this is a slightly strange choice for me, but…am I alone in finding The Wire‘s Sonja Sohn incredibly hot? Surely not.

I have mentioned this before in other contexts and been met with the derisive assertion that she can’t be attractive because she looks like a man. Hmmm.

My counter was, and still is:

  • Just because she isn’t traditionally feminine on The Wire doesn’t mean she looks like a man.
  • OK, she wears men’s clothes. But look down the page. See those things on her chest? They are called breasts. Men don’t have those unless they are really overweight.
  • An anyway who cares, she’s smoking hot!

Looking back, I think Michelle’s recent dream of “hot lesbian action” may have closely coincided with our watching an episode of the Wire on DVD in which her character indulges in said activity.

So, perhaps I am not the only one in the relationship who finds Sonja Sohn incredibly hot.

It’s…the look in her eye.

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