Namio Stories – Ganki Monthly

New visitors note: there’s a new fantasy story series emerging based on Namio drawings. 

It’s about Ms Kishi, chief reviewer at Ganki Monthly – Ganki means facesitting in Japanese, but you probably knew that already.  

There will probably end up being 4 or 5 of these. He certainly did enough illustrations of facesitting for that many at least…

Click here for episode 1…

Ms Kishi’s Bad Mood

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Enjoy.

Steve.

Sex is for the Woman’s Pleasure

3 On one level I thoroughly agree with the principal expressed in this here artwork. Most of the best sex I have ever had was when Michelle and I both concentrated on her pleasure. The fact that she is often totally fine with that is a major turn on for me. The idea that she has kept me chaste for long periods to increase my eagerness to please her – that’s an even bigger turn-on, when it happens. 2 On the other hand – periodic episodes of sex that are expressly for my benefit are fine too. As I have said before, I know she can feel a bit pressured by being the Orgasm Queen (her words) because it means that sex has to be about her pleasure even when she does not feel like coming. Sex that is for me takes that pressure off. Generally in our relationship the ration is about 80/20 in favour of sex that is for her pleasure. Sometimes we have sex that goes nowhere and neither of us some and that is fine too.) So that sums up where we are at in terms of who the sex is for.

In terms of denial – I’d say that I can keep myself chaste in the short term, but in order for a chastity dynamic to work for me in the long term, I need some acknowledgement that she is denying me for her own benefit. It’s been that way since the beginning of this blog, 7 years ago. At various stages in our relationship Michelle has enforced my chastity. We are not in one right now but I am hopeful we might get back there again.

I guess this is why submissively inclined men draw pictures like this – to portray women saying the things they would like to hear from an appreciative partner. And I also guess there are a lot of men out there who cannot get the women in their lives to accept their kink, at all. Some women seem to embrace it whole-heartedly. My wife is kind of half and half.

Incidentally – does anyone know who these drawings are by? S/he leaves no signature, only a signature style. If there are any more, I’d love to know about them. I think this one is by the same artist but I am not sure. The perky nipples look like the same style to me. 1

Alex Chapmon at Erotic Artists.Org

Erotic Artists is a new-ish online community for, uh, erotic artists to show and sell their wares.

(Actually it ain’t that new. It seems to have started in 2005 but spent a long time on the runway.)

Their femdom art section has 95 pieces, nearly all of which are by Alex Chapmon. A lot of the work is new – i.e. since bout 2009.

Alex Chapmon is a femdom art regular, but until recently I had never found a homepage for this artist. This is it. There are about 90 pieces of his / her work there.

On the gender subject, I’m guessing that Alex is probably a black guy but I really can’t tell. It could be a woman.

Did someone say pathetic man stereotype? I don’t really like these illustrations, mostly because the captions are so unsubtle they make me want to get into Paint.net and just erase them. But not everything Chapmon does is captioned that way.

In general I think his / her style is interesting but thematically we aren’t in the same place, at all. But if you like that kind of thing, there is plenty more…

Is it comfortable, Aengus?

Facesitting: is it actually comfortable for the woman? Let’s ask three of Aengus’ cartoon facesitters.

“What? Of course it’s uncomfortable for me as well. I’m only doing it because you asked me to. And in return I get you to give me head properly. Five minutes for you. An hour for me. Now stop complaining.”

“Yes, I suppose it is moderately comfortable. It’s kinda warm and your nose is pushing in to my bottom which is sweet. But it would be better if you would stop moving. Or talking. Just make a low continuous humming noise. There. that’s fine.”

“Well, it’s not entirely comfortable but it’s the best thing on offer. The shower stools I saw were far too low, and our piano stool is wooden. And, by the way, you don’t have to lick. I really do just want you to sit on.”

Holes in the Internet

OK I admit it; and it must have been obvious, too. I have spent a fair amount of time searching the internet. And I haven’t just been looking for new femdom art, but also for  ‘good quality’ femdom porn images (sic). I’m only really talking about free stuff, although if I find god pay sites, I usually give the tour a look over.

I have partly done this because I’m perverted and because I like looking at new things, but a major reason I’ve look for good femdom porn is because I almost cannot believe that there are so many niches around that are not properly catered for. The internet is totally vast, but it’s imbalanced. It’s like there are these great big holes, places where everyone thinks that no-one else wants to look there.

I mentioned one of these a while back: a Google image search for “facesitting” (quotes included) yields about 295,000 hits! A search for “queening chair” yields only 290, and most of these are not actually of a queening chair. Basically, it’s very easy to find images of face-sitting (in which the woman often looks very uncomfortable), and almost impossible to find galleries of queening chairs actually being used.

Over the past year I have identified several more of these holes. Here goes:

Femdom Bukakke

I didn’t even bother Googling either ‘bukkake’ or ‘cumshot’ because I already know the hits would number in the zillions. It is almost as though Western men fear that their universe will cease to exist unless many of them spend time each day viewing images of women with fresh semen on their faces. It is like some new cultural imperative.

But try finding shots of a group of women ejaculating on a man. Try it. An image search on “femdom bukkake” (with quotes) yields 299 hits, and none of these are what it actually describes. Related searches are no help. There are quite a few images of individual woman squirting on guys but more often than not, it is urine.

I recall once seeing an outdoor shoot of a group of pretty dommes lining up to masturbate, squirt and pee over a happy sub guy who had been tied down in the middle of a road, while a crowd looked on. I can no longer find this. Other than that, I got zero.

Femdom Fucking

Images of coital sex where the woman appears to be obviously and aggressively in control are few and far between, compared to shots of male dominated sex, or femdom pegging. Maymay put me onto this picture, which has a good back-story, and there’s this wonderful offering from Vanja which makes me smile every time I look at it.

But apart from that it is slim pickings, and if anyone knows a good place to get hold of pictures where the woman is clearly controlling the man through the act of fucking so she can get the most out of it, hook me up, because I’m sick of looking at bad TGP pages that are always of the wrong thing.

A subset of this is pictures of women pulling hair or whipping a guy while they get oral sex. There are a few, but not nearly as many as you’d think, if things were in balance.

Masturbation Tease

This is a tough one because it is a hard to think up search terms for it (woman masturbates while man looks on?), but I don’t recall having seen too many images of women masturbating while a tied up man watches, unable to do anything. In fact I can only think of this one which is not very sexy. That seems a shame. I guess I will have to think back to my mind’s eye image of the time Michelle restrained me and then used a large vegetable on herself while she made me kiss her feet.

Leaking Shots

Michelle doesn’t mind the odd peek at Kami Tora, and quite enjoys his come-shots, but her favourite thing of all seems to be when pre-come leaks out my cock while she is teasing me. She’ll eat it, if it’s going. I’ve tried to find shots of guys leaking out in frustration while their girlfriends watch on laughing (Michelle usually laughs when I do this), but once again, there isn’t much there. Rob and Jill is not bad, I guess, but Rob always reminds me of Lurch from the Addams family.

Anyway, you get the idea. The disclaimer here is the same as it was for my first queening chair post;  there may be stuff out there that I haven’t found, but I’ve given it a good solid year and if it is there, it sure isn’t leaping out at me.

The problem with all this is the time I spend searching for the good stuff leaves me with a bad taste in my mouth because of the crap I have to sift through.

I have talked this over with Michelle and we are both of the view, fuck it. No more searching. I would have found what  I was looking for by now. Anything that comes my way from hereon in, it will be because I stumble across it.