Alisa Verner

One of the better erotic photographic artists going around. There’s enough boudoir / soft porn elements to keep a fella happy and she isn’t tryting to be too damn arty with weird angles, but the shots are really well taken and the lighting is great.

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Her main site is here but downloading is disabled:

http://en.alisaverner.com/gallery/erotic/

Free stuff here.

https://vk.com/album42522362_127484144

Gracey Gimp

I’ve been looking for years for Femdom Art that show the woman masturbating while the man watches on.

I’ve also been looking for F/m art that shows the woman, y’know, coming.

Finally, I get a hold of Benoit Feroumont , a.k.a Gracey Gimp, at his wonderful, wonderful, sexy blog over HERE.

It’s the best. These are so good I am going to have to see about writing something to go with them.

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Alex Chapmon at Erotic Artists.Org

Erotic Artists is a new-ish online community for, uh, erotic artists to show and sell their wares.

(Actually it ain’t that new. It seems to have started in 2005 but spent a long time on the runway.)

Their femdom art section has 95 pieces, nearly all of which are by Alex Chapmon. A lot of the work is new – i.e. since bout 2009.

Alex Chapmon is a femdom art regular, but until recently I had never found a homepage for this artist. This is it. There are about 90 pieces of his / her work there.

On the gender subject, I’m guessing that Alex is probably a black guy but I really can’t tell. It could be a woman.

Did someone say pathetic man stereotype? I don’t really like these illustrations, mostly because the captions are so unsubtle they make me want to get into Paint.net and just erase them. But not everything Chapmon does is captioned that way.

In general I think his / her style is interesting but thematically we aren’t in the same place, at all. But if you like that kind of thing, there is plenty more…

Linkage Renewal

Blog link renewal time.

  • Femdom-Resources is up and looks the goods.
  • Man I sure I am getting a lot of hits from Keyheld. Appreciated.Added a banner.
  • Chastity Forums is still going all right. I added a banner.
  • The Pickle Queen is down. I always liked it. It was one of those sites that got set up before the blogosphere really kicked in and maybe got a bit left behind? But it was a good ‘un.
  • Rodzo dot com is down. His work is still up at the Strict Susan website (see the links). Mistress Susan contacted me a while back to say it had been along time since she had heard from him.
  • Painter Jayne’s site is still up but most of the images are missing.
  • The Femdom Wiki project has folded. My post here was in vain. Images from that site that were hotlinked have gone.
  • The Wayback Machine is still up and Femdomart.ru is still there but they must have changed their hosting policy because they now block image linking. I’m fixing a few old posts.
  • A Slave’s True Nature is still up but no sign of Nik. I don’t know why but that particular blogger really appealed to me.

Update: The Dominant’s View is also down! My art archive post is trashed. Bummer. That was a good site.

I suppose there are prolly lots of cool femdom tumblrs out there now too. I’m resisting the temptation to do my own.

Oh, and I really love this picture.

Chatity Forums Dot Com – rules and cultural protocol

Thumper has a new (ish) Chastity discussion forum going at ChastityForums.com. There are lots of members and regular posting.

I was never much of a forum poster until this came along, as the forums for kinksters (submissive men in particular) I found always seemed to be full of people trying in vain to pick up, dudes that were probably lying, or, prodommes looking for phone sex clients. Not so hott.

But this seems a better bet so far.  To start with, there’s a pretty defined culture of commonsense rather than fantasy. Check out the ChastityForums.com rules page:

The first and most important rule here at Chastity Forums is this: DON’T BE A DICK.

Other than that, there are no rules. That being said, this is a site about male chastity in the real world, not some fantasy wank land. Please, be respectful of that. Also, we tend to be the non-French maid uniform crowd who call our locked cocks lots of things, but never “sissy clitties”. Really. Never.

It struck me when I joined the forum that the internet probably plays a huge role in shaping many men’s beliefs about themselves and their new-found sexuality. As soon as they get on the net, they find a myriad of images and depictions of submissive men as feminized, or pathetic, or both, and many men must assume that this is how they have to behave in order to get a compatible partner.

I know, this begs the question, is the internet a reflection of taste, or does it create it?

But I do  wonder how many guys actually start out with the idea that they want to be forced to clean the bathroom with a toothbrush and made to eat of a dog’s bowl. There would be some, but, would there be as many?

And I wonder too, if left to their own imaginings without the internet, if submissive guys would develop a different sense of how their sexuality was going to work out in practice.

I remember my first uneducated yearnings were to simply to be jumped on and used for her pleasure, without her having any concern for my own. Maid’s uniforms were not in the equation.

Anyway, point is, there are corners of the internet in which discussions of chastity have a culture separate from the maid / feminization fantasies. You can look at ChastityForums.com as a good example.